TOP TAKE-AWAY: SOCIAL SUPPORT AS A PATHWAY TO HEALTHY COPING

After parents experience a miscarriage, they often struggle to cope. Many parents use passive coping, which can be maladaptive in the long term because it consists of self-blame, wishful thinking, and ignoring the situation.

Active coping is a more adaptive form of coping, because it involves problem solving, changing the situation, or changing something about the self in order to deal with the situation. However, active coping can be uncomfortable and even make parents feel worse in the moment. In order to actively cope, a person has to directly confront the situation, and that can make you feel sad, angry, or anxious in the moment. So, while it may be beneficial in the long-term, it can be very hard to do in the short-term.

IPL Story - Colleen

I always thought becoming pregnant was an easy thing to do. After I got married in February, I became pregnant right away this past summer after just our first time trying. A lot of my friends and family were also pregnant at this time so we were even more excited to announce our news!

I went to my first appointment around 4 weeks and got the confirmation that I was indeed pregnant. I felt great. I continued to play soccer, go for long runs, and live my normal life. I arrived to my 2nd appointment around week 9-10 thinking this is when I’d get my ultrasound. Little did I know, I was supposed to have scheduled my own ultrasound at the hospital weeks ago, soon after that first appointment. My doctor told me I needed to go and schedule that as soon as possible. Within the following week, I was on my way to hear my baby’s heart beat. When I arrived, I was a little nervous but then quickly talked myself out of it telling myself that this is a time I’m supposed to be excited, not worried.

SAY HELLO TO OUR FALL 2019 INTERNS!

We’ve been working on a lot of projects lately with the help of our Fall Interns, Sarah Montgomery (left) and Taeya Norris (right)! Sarah is a senior Neuroscience major who is investigating the relationship between pregnancy loss and symptoms of anxiety, depression, and PTSD. Taeya is a senior Psychology major, her project focuses on the coping methods used by women who have experienced involuntary pregnancy loss. Keep a look out for the interesting results from their work!

TOP-TAKE AWAY: AVOIDANCE AFTER RECURRENT MISCARRIAGE IS NORMAL, YOU’RE NOT ALONE

Recurrent miscarriages, where women experience multiple miscarriages, affect around 1% of women. While all miscarriages have a psychological impact, recurrent miscarriages may come with an additional layer of psychological distress. The frequency of miscarriage makes it more personal to women - they may feel like it’s their fault and that they will never have a successful pregnancy.